Grandpa's funeral

My grandpa passed away 2 days before I came back to HK... um... My mum told me he went in a comfort way. And the funeral is held from 20thJan night to 21stJan afternoon. Basically, we just go there and do whatever the staff there asked us to do. It's not much to do when we were there. Just to fold a lot of "gold" and "silver" and talk to some relatives I never really met over there. I thought, it is such a weird job to do as a staff there... it's a lot of procedure to remember and some weird songs to sing in a specific tone. I suppose they were singing in cantonese but I can't even understand what they were singing. I wanna understand a bit more of their life. Where do they live? What do they do in their spear time. um... anyway.. back to the funeral... to be entirely honest, I am not very close to my grandpa. But it does remind me my Grandma a lot ~_~ and I do love her... and I missed her funeral a few years ago T__T and... it was a month or 2 months after CNY (2002?)... I so much feeling I had to come back to meet my grandma that year and I did. and it was the last time... um...